LGBTQ+ Breakup Recovery & Relationship Coaching

Break free from heartbreak and toxic patterns. I help LGBTQ+ rainbows—especially gay men—reclaim self-worth, heal from relationship pain, and attract authentic love with RTT® and personalized coaching.

Embrace Love Again

Ready to move forward? My approach helps you rediscover confidence, heal emotional wounds, and open up to meaningful, lasting relationships.

Radiant Hearts Transformation for Complex Love Dynamics

My signature program blends RTT®, mindfulness, and coaching to help you break free from old patterns, rebuild self-worth, and thrive in love.

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LGBTQ+ relationship coach

Radiant Relationships

Learn to navigate complex love, set healthy boundaries, and create connections that last.

Heartbreak recovery session for queer clients

Self-Love Journey

Personal growth and self-love are the foundation for attracting the right people into your life.

LGBTQ+ breakup recovery coach

Heartbreak Healer

Step-by-step support to mend your heart, learn from the past, and open yourself to new love.

Our Journey Together

Experience a blend of RTT®, hypnotherapy, and personalized coaching—tailored for LGBTQ+ clients, with deep experience supporting gay men’s unique relationship challenges.

About RTT ®

RTT®, or Rapid Transformational Therapy, combines tools and techniques from hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, CBT, NLP, and neuroscience to create an extremely efficient and effective way to heal mental issues and encourage mindfulness. Originally developed by award-winning therapist Marisa Peer, the theory of RTT® relies on the idea that mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being from childhood and adolescence through adulthood – there is no bad candidate for using RTT® to achieve a healthier, happier life!

How RTT ® Works

In RTT®, hypnosis is used to discover the root cause of troublesome behaviour, unhealthy thinking patterns, and mental issues. By uncovering the root cause of mental health and behavioural challenges, RTT® makes confronting unhelpful beliefs, many of which can be hard to pinpoint without the help of hypnosis, significantly easier to identify and combat with our conscious minds. Simply put, RTT® uses the power of reprogramming your thoughts to change your life.

Guided RTT® session for heartbreak recovery

Podcast Guest Appearances & Interviews

Gay Men Going Deeper Podcast

Gay Men Going Deeper: Why Do I Keep Attracting Unavailable Men?

Lonay Halloum joins Gay Men Going Deeper to discuss why so many gay men and LGBTQ+ folks find themselves in cycles of heartbreak and unavailable partners.

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Everything and Anything Podcast

Everything and Anything... and a Bit Gay: Episode 86

Exploring LGBTQ+ heartbreak recovery, self-worth, and the power of authentic coaching with Lonay Halloum.

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Coming Out & Beyond Podcast

Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories – LGBTQ+ Healing from the Inside Out

Lonay shares his personal journey and tips for overcoming internalized shame and building healthy queer relationships.

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40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk Podcast

40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk – Queer Healing & Relationship Transformation

Rick Clemons interviews Lonay Halloum on breaking toxic patterns and finding love as a gay man.

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The Love Machine Podcast

The Love Machine Podcast: Unblock Your Heart

How subconscious beliefs shape LGBTQ+ love and dating.

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Rainbow Country Radio YouTube

Rainbow Country Radio: Interview with Lonay Halloum

Lonay discusses LGBTQ+ empowerment, international queer coaching, and ethical frameworks for supporting gay men and the wider LGBTQ+ community.

Audio Only

What Clients Say

“To anyone considering working with this very talented man - I first heard Lonay on a podcast I frequently listen to and was caught by his depth of knowledge about gay relationships. He truly knows his way thru this often messy space. When I reached out to him to find out about the details of his program, I was surprised by the amount of time he sets aside for the sessions with his clients. You truly feel like you’re his only client and have access to all of his talent. His program is very detailed and very specific to your situation and needs. He holds you accountable each week and there's homework between sessions to help keep you on track. I came into this from a very difficult situation of a broken marriage with significant betrayal and heartbreak. I was so afraid to be alone that I just let myself be a doormat, afraid to speak my truth for fear of being alone. With Lonay’s coaching and deep dives into lifelong patterns, I was able to find my voice. With my voice came courage and the resounding truth that “I Am Enough”. This has been a life changing experience. I left the broken relationship and with each day I’m more comfortable being just me. Ive relocated to a new city and have been meeting new friends. Each day gets better than before. I now look forward to being just me in my own space. New friends are wanting to introduce me to single guys. While I’m not quite ready to start dating again, that day is getting closer. I feel like I’m in a much better space to show up as a genuinely loving partner with the comfort and knowledge I’m gaining in learning to love myself. If you’re stuck in a relationship that isn’t working for you, you need to work with this man. Whether you can work thru the issues in your relationship and come out the other side in a much better place or if leaving because its too far gone to save, you will find your voice and be able to figure out the best path of your long term happiness. I am truly grateful beyond words for having crossed paths with this beautiful soul.”
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- Rickey D., Columbus, Ohio

“Lonay’s methods unlocked something deep inside of me. I explored topics I had spoken about ad nauseam with other providers, but approaching them through an alternative method was incredibly healing. I now have a remarkably evolved relationship with my inner child.”
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- John W.

“My experience with Lonay to date has been life changing for me, his ability to connect, his patience and openness have encouraged me to reach places within myself that I hadn’t accessed before in my search for inner healing of the wounded child and as a same sex attracted man from the start of life. This long journey has brought me to a place of peace where I can now allow the healing to flow. I am inspired by this young man and his ability to convey important deep connection with his personalised meditations, which have helped reprogram the parts of my subconscious most in need of healing. I can only say from my experience, Lonay is an excellent coach in this field, thank you Lonay. P.S. Lonay is very generous with his time and effort too... My introduction to Lonay was through an interview with Matt Landsiedel on ‘gay men's brotherhood’ podcast earlier this summer which lead me to inquire of his services.”
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- Aiden C., UK

Accreditations

International Hypnosis Association logo
General Hypnotherapy Register logo
International Coaches Register logo
International Institute for Complementary Therapists logo
Accredited Counsellors, Coaches, Psycotherapists and Hypnotherapists logo
International Association of Counselors & Therapists logo
Australian Society of Clinical Hypnotherapists logo
International Hypnosis Federation logo
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AS SEEN ON

"I returned to my inner axis in the fastest and the most effective way. I’ve got strong and indisputable realizations about my own responsibility and reached a state of inner peace and raised my self-esteem. Now I know my life’s mission and have the purpose of life..."

- Mark H., Leadership Coach

"So the lightness is unspeakable…Gratitude is boundless and cannot be valued by any wealth.… The path taken together brought priceless experience and ignited hope… opened the soul and showed the way… The way to a new life, a life that I can create myself with the help of the Universe…"

- Sandra W., Health Coach

"The system you are working with is unique and really gives brilliant results. Each day I was more curious to learn about myself. Thank you for your professional, and very sincere support during my journey of uncomfortable personal situations. Today I feel confident, valuable, and needed..."

- Ryan P., Mindset Coach

"How good it is to get rid of that old baggage that dragged me down... How good it is to find a way, or maybe even a huge highway... How good it is to understand that life is JUST beginning… even when I am 52 and my children are grown and grandchildren are already running… "

- Noah Z., Business Coach

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Lonay Halloum, LGBTQ+ relationship coach

About Lonay Halloum

As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, my personal journey through heartbreak and healing informs every session. My mission is to help you embrace your authentic self and create the love life you deserve.

As a certified RTT practitioner and hypnotherapist, I'm dedicated to helping people embrace their authentic selves, heal from past wounds, and cultivate fulfilling relationships. My goal is to provide a safe and supportive space, empower people to move beyond societal expectations and internalized challenges, in order to foster a path to self-acceptance and transformative love.

Rapid Transformational Therapy Practitioner
Hypnotherapist

Revive Radiant Relationships

Empowering LGBTQ+ Souls to Break Free from Heartbreak and Thrive in Love.

Overcome heartbreak, transform unhealthy habits and attract lasting love.