Media & Podcast Features
Interviews, articles, and conversations about gay men, love, and healing relationship patterns.
As a gay relationship coach, I’m passionate about talking openly about the realities gay men face in love: emotionally unavailable partners, toxic dating patterns, heartbreak, shame, and the journey back to self-worth.
Below you’ll find a selection of articles and podcast episodes where I’ve shared tools, stories, and perspectives on healing and creating healthy gay relationships.
Articles & Features
Building Ethical Frameworks for International Queer Coaching
An in-depth look at how Lonay Halloum approaches coaching queer and gay men across diverse cultures, focusing on ethics, safety, and trauma-aware practice in international LGBTQ+ coaching.
SEX FILES: The rise of the 'zip-coding' dating trend
Lonay Halloum shares insights on modern gay dating patterns, emotional availability, and how location and lifestyle influence the ways queer people seek love in today’s world.
Podcast Guest Appearances
Gay Men Going Deeper – Why Do I Keep Attracting Unavailable Men?
A deep-dive conversation about why so many gay men feel stuck in a loop with emotionally unavailable partners, exploring how subconscious beliefs and early experiences shape dating patterns, and how to start breaking free.
Love Machine Podcast – Unblock Your Heart: How Subconscious Beliefs Shape LGBTQ+ Love
We discuss how subconscious programming, shame, and fear impact queer love, and how tools like RTT® and hypnotherapy can help LGBTQ+ individuals heal relationship wounds and open up to real connection.
Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast – Survival, Self-Acceptance, and Rebuilding Love
A wide-ranging discussion on heartbreak, self-acceptance, and rebuilding your life as a gay man. We talk about moving through pain, letting go of shame, and creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
Coming Out & Beyond: LGBTQIA+ Stories – LGBTQ Healing, From the Inside Out!
We talk about coming out, healing from internalized shame, and how deeper self-love supports healthier relationships for LGBTQ+ people, with practical tips for navigating family, dating, and self-discovery.
40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk – Navigating Breakups and Toxic Relationships as A Gay Man
Lonay Halloum unpacks why so many gay men find themselves drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, and shares practical steps for breaking free and creating healthier relationships.
Rainbow Country+ – The Queer Subconscious Mind
I join the award-winning Rainbow Country+ show to discuss the challenges gay men face in love, the impact of emotional trauma, and how coaching can help men reclaim self-worth and healthy relationships.
The Richness of Our Lives Podcast – My Parents Sold Their Wedding Rings So I Could Leave The Country
A heartfelt discussion about turning heartbreak into personal growth, overcoming the fear of being alone, and using mindfulness and RTT® to create lasting change in how we love and relate.
TAGS Podcast – Are You Ready for Love—or Just Repeating the Pattern?
What does it really means to be “ready” for a relationship when all of us are still works in progress? How much healing should happen before we begin dating? When should we offer someone grace for their wounds, and when are we simply ignoring another red flag?
Media & Collaboration Inquiries
If you’d like to feature my work, invite me as a guest, or collaborate on content around gay men, relationships, and healing, I’d be happy to connect.
